Monday, March 25, 2019

Week 42 -- Week in pictures

So you know how I haven't taken like any pics in a long time? I decided to make up for it this last week and we managed to take I kid you not, more than 100 PICS with everything that we did!!

I'll spare you the joy of looking at every. single. one. But I will describe my week in terms of pics if that's cool with you guys :)


The slickest Sisters of Mossoró 

#açaifordaysss



Some of the wonderful people we see and interact with everyday:









Joyce - the only member of her fam, and still going strong while fighting depression with her adorable 16 yrs :)
















Rebecca e Marianna - this adorable fam and menina that makes us die laughing, and also makes me excited for the day when I will be a mom <3

My Brasilian amores <3 (just look into the eyes of Neidinha at my side -- is there not a more loving and kind face in the entire world??)






Had this family that we've been teaching for some time introduce us to their pet parakeet that apparently is so loved that he never leaves the shoulder of his master, but so disregarded that it's been over a year and he STILL doesn't have a name. 


















Moment of weakness:    -- disclaimer - you could say there may have been some pretty sketchy and traumatic bird experiences in the former life of Sister Staheli. #nevercompletelysafe #sheerterror 





A little taste of the beautiful Brasilian environment and the delightfully unpredictable way of changing every day


We spent the last p-day learning how to make gravatas (ties) from this member in our ward !! My companion had bought a ton of fabric and wanted to make them for assorted amigos  in the mish and it was a success! It's a trend here that everyone makes ties for each other (including the elders who are actually SUPER good #handsewedandeverything).
It was pretty funny because all they wanted to use was glue soooo I guess we'll see how long these bad boys will last lol 



















The next model


SENDING MY LOVE.
Don't forget to send a hug/love to your mother! She is the most amazing person in the world and deserves to know it! 
(shout-out to the best mom in the world - LOVE YOU MOM. )

<3 Sister Staheli 


p.s. also feel free to send me an update of how you're doing in the mail!! #loveyouguys #dontfeelobligated

Brazil Natal Mission
Av. Interventor Mario Camara, 1904
Dix-Sept Rosado
59054-600 Natal - RN
Brazil





Week 41 -- phone call

It was our spring break, so Anne called.  She looked great and spoke with a Portuguese accent and hand gestures.

Week 40 -- Carnival

Anne was house bound so no emails.  They were to stay indoors during Carnival.

Here is a picture of her 9 month mark in their apartment, waiting out Carnival.
9 month mark

Week 39 -- Tender mercies & miracles



Wow what a week of miracles and tender mercies.  Even though every last man, woman, child e cachorro (and dog) all packed their bags for Tibol  (a nearby beach town) in preparation for Carnival on Tuesday (aka dia 5 – aka the exact day that I’ll pass 9 meses na missao (months on my mission)  #reachedthepeak  #whatthisispassingsofast), and there’s been hardly a tumbleweed roaming the streets

God has still managed (like He always does) to bring forth the miracles.  Just a few tender mercies of the week:  

-       ----     Had a zone conference with our mission president and all of the missionaries in the Interior #ricebeans&acaigalore   #inspired-words&answered-prayers-as-always



    



          Meet the district. These are all the missionaries that stay in the surrounding barrios of the city! The first two in front next to me are the only other americans (I know - hard to believe #blondhairblueeyes) from Utah but are super cool! It's tradition that the person to go home first of the group takes the pic holding flowers (because they will "die" first) - but I love this group with my whole heart! Super solid, inspiring people 
 






 --- Our cute little amigo Juan (who goes alone by foot to church and printed out the full-sized picture in color during our first lesson) asked when was the soonest he could be baptized
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$201 Reals
 -----  This older man in our ward has this insanely legit collection of money and old bills/coins that he’s been buying, accumulating and trading over the years.  Brasil has changed their types of bills a few times – ranging from Cruzeiros to Cruzados and now in Reals – and he has made it his life AMBITION to seek out every last original copy, ranging in color and transparency and equivalency to about $30 million reals.  Apparently there was a time when Brasil printed its money in the US and so all the bills look almost exactly the same – complete with the label on the bottom “Estados Unidos duo Brasil.”  But the one thing his collection is seriously lacking …. Can you guess?  Yep  - dollars.  He’s been dying to get his hands on a $2 bill and has pestered every last American missionary that’s passed through without even the SLIGHTEST success.  How to break the news that “Shoot Senior, yeah I had about $20 in $2 bills but I caved when I saw Salagadis (street food) for $1 real, I couldn’t help myself and traded it all #worthit.  But somehow even with lacking the appropriate goods for the trade, I walked out with an old $1 and $200 bill de cruzeiros (equivalent nowadays to $50-60 reals or $15 dollars.)   It meant a lot to him that there was someone willing to sit, rifle through and admire something that was his life passion.  Because what good is a collection without anyone to appreciate it and give value to it?

-      ---    The last tender mercy/miracle of the week was our good old pastor Igor.  If you remember Igor was the one that walked in during the middle of our lesson and made everyone feel like we had been caught red-handed doing something naughty like when mom catches you mid stroke scribbling in sharpie on her beautifully white washed walls or something like that.  We had gotten his contact information to meet up with him another day but my companion wanted nothing of it.  Apparently she has not had the best of experiences with teaching pastors in the past – the last one consisting of arguing and throwing scriptures down their throats, insisting and ardently disputing exactly just how they were wrong, which sadly was a terrible experience for her.  

      I don’t know, but there was something different about Igor and I couldn’t get him out of my head, and I called him to set up a meeting in the park.  During my whole personal study I just kept thinking about what he would say or how he would react, but in that first encounter, I could see he had a good heart with just the desire to serve God.  I could see it in his eyes you know?  But I studied a lot about what I thought might be his questions and what the apostles in the New Testament said about this dark period on the earth without the fullness of the gospel.  But really I was just saying a lot of prayers, relying that God would help guide us in helping him understand.  But man was I a wee bit stressed out.  But as we sat down in that park, listening about his life and getting to know him as a person – his family, dreams and aspirations, past service in the church, his love of working with the youth….I just came to really admire and respect Igor for his good heart and pure desire to serve God.  
  
     We continued to teach, explain and bear testimony of the truthfulness of our message – how God really had restored His church here on earth again through Joseph Smith.  I could see the hesitancy and doubt in his eyes melt away with every scripture in the Book of Mormon.  He could feel the power and truth in the book sitting in his hands – doubt and resistance being replaced with light and humility.  The spirit was almost palpable.  It was so strong, leading and guiding us in our words in what he needed to hear.  He sincerely and humbly opened up to us about his doubts, asking questions with a desire to only understand, not to find fault.  It truly was a miracle that I can’t believe God had allowed me to witness.  

      The thing is, God knows how difficult it is to find the truth in our world today.  He knows how lost and confused we are at times.  Because of this, He gave us our Savior to know what to do and where to find His truth.  He always beckons and invites us to find out for ourselves with the promise that He would always answer the prayer of those with a faithful and earnest heart.  This was the amazing promise that we left with Igor that morning as we sat on the park bench.  I don’t know what Igor will decide to do, but I know that the Igor that came and the Igor that left was a changed man.

I am still blown away with just how loving, merciful, present and miraculous God is.  I am blessed beyond what I deserve.  I love you all.  Thanks for the amazing people that you are.  Know that God loves you.

Love,
Sister Staheli

PS Sorry if my emails are too obnoxiously long – don’t feel obligated to read if you don’t want to.



Week 38 - Rain and Pastors


Eai (what’s up) family!

So this week was the week da chuva (the rain) – I don’t think I’ve ever seen it rain so hard with such consistency in my entire life!  It was seriously RIDICULO how much it rained (especially after everyone said that it NEVER rains in Mossoró).  Everyone dropped everything they had to run out and “tomar banho” na chuva (take a bath in the rain).  Darn my current and ever present skirt/dress combo that makes running and frolicking in the rain a bit more complicated.  But I did have some pretty fun and interesting moments this week – so ‘bora la a gente’ (let’s go people). 

This week we had the privilege of meeting and teaching two completely different pastors rounding my total number of interesting pastorly encounters up to five, two of which came to church with us.
The first one of the week was Nosso Irmato Igor, a fresh new graduate from the 4 year seminary who’s about 26, bald with a healthy growth of beard and the longest eyelashes I’ve ever seen.  But how we met was so crazy.  We were walking in the street and stopped to talk to this woman sweeping out front.  It turns out her son had been baptized in the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints many years ago but had stopped going and apparently lives in Fortaleza, but she goes I have the biblia de voces! And quickly ushers us in where we meet her 2 grandkids who are 16 and 17 years old. 
So we’re sitting there teaching about how Christ was baptized and this guy appears in the doorway and everything just gets super tense and awkward like IMMEDIATELY right? And he goes….”opa. Oi.”  (Hi…. "opa" is a greeting indicating slight surprise: you didn't quite expect to run into that person where you did) “And I’m like who is this guy?  A neighbor/friend/relative that had marked a commitment with this family and is slightly miffed to find them already with company?  And the grandma just gets a little frantic and goes “oh yeah, these girls were just passing by and my son was baptized first in their church before the second baptism – in your church, (enter even more intensity because we’re starting to understand who this guy was) and they were just sharing a message with us about the gospel of Jesus and why don’t you sit and listen?”  (Super breathless and feeling like – oh shoot – somebody save me.)  So with little grace he sat down and we began to teach the rest of the lesson on Christ and His baptism and the symbolism of being baptized by immersion.
We talked about how important it is that the person who baptizes has to have the authority and power given by God and not by man to baptize.  (Which once again gets slightly tense because this man baptizes probably on a weekly basis right?)  So we finished our lesson and my companion was rushing, trying to get one foot out the door, but I just could not help myself and threw in the one thing that makes our church different than any other church.  How we know that this authority to baptize by the power of God has been lost for a long time since the death of Christ’s apostles (who all had been given this priesthood power by Christ).  And how with the death of the apostles, the people became super confused and argued over what was true or not.  Many churches began to arise with different beliefs and different baptisms because there was no one around with the priesthood power and authority to answer questions or disputes that arose.  But because God loves us, He has called a modern day prophet and apostles to restore the power of the priesthood to baptize as well as to restore truths that have been lost over the centuries.  And boy did the ball start rolling. 

Question after question.  Scripture after scripture discussing and bearing sincere testimony.  We didn’t have time to talk about everything but marked a different day to answer his questions a little better.  I can’t wait until he reads just a part of the Book of Mormon (aka the book that changes lives), it’s all the proof he could ever need that it’s all real.  I don’t know how receptive he’ll be with it all but it still was way peaceful – the spirit testifying the truth of it all with every word.  #Missionsaresogreat. 
But on another note, we also met this youngin Juan (pronounced hoo-waw) that was so sweet and also super intelligent with his 13 years of life.  After meeting his whole family we were able to teach them a little, and learn more about the Presbyterian church and meet his grandpa (also a pastor of said church) who is seriously the sweetest old man in the world.  They love talking in English and so I got to help them practice a bit.  Good people with good hearts making the world a better place.  But Juan just gets so excited and says I have a surprise for you guys but waited restlessly until the end of the lesson – finally bursting that he (and his grandma) would go to church with us on Sunday, but that if his grandpa couldn’t (because they ALSO have church at the same time) he would walk there on his own later.  And in the end just goes wait, wait, wait!  Grabs his phone to take a picture of the 3 of us and goes directly to the computer to print out 2 full sheets, color photograph and signs the bottom – DE:  Juan Pablo Para Sister Staheli com Carinho.

And guess who arrived early with his saint of a pastor grandfather on the 2nd row?  J 

Getting to teach and share with people something so important and a part of me like the gospel (every day) has really made a mark on me.  God is real and I know that this is His church.  I Love YOU ALL.  Thanks for all the support even if I don’t have time every week to respond.  It means a lot!!

Sending my love,
Sister Staheli

Week 37 - transfers to Mossoró


After passing a little more than 8 months in the capital, I was finally shipped out to the boonies of the Interior (or promised land as everyone calls it), and boy is EVERYTHING SO DIFFERENT.  So I didn’t realize this was a thing, but there are definitely 2 types of missionaries here in Brazil, Natal.  Those ‘born in the capital (First area of the mission) and those 4-5-9 hours away in the quente (hot) interior.  To give you an idea of how hot it is here, in Natal everyone always says “Man this week was hot.”  “Yeah it was”.  “Hey at least we’re not in Mossoró.”  “Yeah it’s NOWHERE near as hot.  I’ve never been but you know people talk.  “Yeah I’ve only passed through 1 day and man NEVER AGAIN.  The frequency of rain is apparently so rare that one time it started to rain and kids on the street started screaming and crying, going beserk with their mom whispering “it’s okay, it’s okay, it’s called rain .” J

Also, saying goodbye to my little part of the world and family in Natal really kind of tore me little.  I won’t bore you guys with the mushy gushy stuff, but really I will forever be different because of the povo (people).   Something I really admire about them was their strength and faith despite being one of the smallest wards in the tiniest of capellas week after week after week.  Their ward wasn’t strong because of their numbers or because they were together, but because INDIVIDUALS therein chose to be strong, even the very youngest.  They passed through some rough times, yet I am grateful for those who chose faith in God, even when they don’t know what they are doing or think that they stand alone.  Because in the end you look back and realize that your little light in the darkness that seemed so small and insignificant was a lighthouse and a beam for those who also felt lost, alone and forgotten.  God asks us to be this light and strength for others, even when we don’t feel adequate.  

14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
15 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.      Matthew 5:14-16

Everyone is strong in their own way – recognize it in yourself AND in others because it is very real and we all need to realize our strength and potential that God sees in US.

As a last thought, it was pretty funny because here in
Mossoró, everyone has like 5 names – like EVERYONE.  Usually consisting of something like ‘Maria das Dores de Silva de Mendonca’ right?  So we are talking to this lady on the street and we say “we’re missionaries a igreja de jesus cristo dos santos dos últimos dias (of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints), but she just gets so flustered saying “you guys believe in things completely different.  I don’t know anything about this other Jesus.  Who is this other Jesus?”  ……  He is the one and the same and the only Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer.

Sending my love and dying from heat exhaustion
Sister Staheli

P.S. I get to skype my family every week!?!

Week 36 - Portuguese lesson on the First Vision

February 11, 2019
Anne sent a video of her teaching in Portuguese.

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