Monday, October 15, 2018

Week 19 -- Transfers


Well friends, you know what happens the moment you find a mango tree and have a baptism scheduled the following weekend with the sweetest Marlene with her pink bible and you just turned 20 years old and have many progressing almas (souls) ready to accept the gospel and life is good?

You get transferred. 
#whoopwhoop

And wow this new area is CRAZY and just KINDA OF DIFFERENT. 

So I was transferred to the ala Natal, as in NATAL,NATAL. Which is in the city with 5 or 6 bairros (neighborhoods) and onibuses and 2 shopping malls and everyone is practically running all the time because they are in such a hurry and essentially completely different than the smallest little residential area of Cidade Verde. The crazy thing is that I am serving in the first ala (ward) that was ever established in all of Rio Grande do Norte!! Including the fact that we meet in the very first capela (chapel) that was ever built here - which is very cool and very small. But what is crazy is that the work here is completely different, which was apparent with my first visit to the capela - there was just trash everywhere on the ground including old wrappers and plastic cups, INSIDE the fence. It is a ward that really everyone has forgotten about and the members are not very strong, and really I have discovered they need a lot of love. The number of people actually in the records of the ward number almost about 572, but weekly just a little over 85 is the normal frequency rate. So my first day here was not spent as a normal day going around meeting new people to teach and doing a lot of street contacting - it was spent jumping house to house nurturing and visiting those members who haven't made it to church in a month or more, have forgotten what the Book of Mormon is about, or are too sick to leave their home yet still haven't received a visit from a loved one or amigo. I have been learning that here, the ward doesn't need more names on the long list of members who don't come or are being forgotten by the world - not throwing more seeds onto the ground but nurturing the roots and young saplings that are already struggling to survive. Some people get distracted with the numbers and the pressures to have physical evidence of your success as a missionary, but what really is important is that these are real people needing real love. 

This week I really had my eyes reopened to just how much Heavenly Father loves His children, and just such immense gratitude for my family which is such a funny random thing. But when I was bent over, picking up all the trash that littered the ground of the capela I remembered one time when we were visiting our family in Sun Valley and we stopped by the church to practice piano for a couple hours (#dedicated) and my sweet mother who spent the 2 hours stooped pulling weeds and making an effort to make the house of the Lord a little more lovely, not because of anyone else, but because she really just loves Him. 

Man how much I love them is just unreal.

Give your family a little extra love this week folks, having a family that speaks kindly and tries to have a little more patience with one another, who listens when they have had a hard day, or simply there to laugh and make pancakes and cinnamon syrup - yo there's NOTHING BETTER.

Also funny thought - 
I don't know what it is, but literally EVERY day since I turned 20, everyone in the whole world has asked me how old I am. Which really isn't that weird until you start figuring out that they are all wondering how you can be serving a mission because you look like you're SIXTEEN. I kid you not everyone is INCREDULOUS when I say that I am 20.  So I started asking people how old they thought I was and this was the most priceless example:
- asked a little girl who had 10 years and she says: hmmmm 13?

So yep, staying fresh and young folks despite entering the second decade of my life so don't stress about me getting old or anything :)

Also sorry my SD card for my camera has been entirely a pain and hasn't been recognizing my pictures but I'll try to look for a new card for next week!

MUITO AMOR,
Sister Staheli


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